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Destini passed away on
February 24th, 2005
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| Name: | Amber Page |
| E-mail address: | sxybtcgddss07@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | Hey Destini! Its been quite a while since I've posted on here! I can't believe you've been gone this long! I've had you on my mind and heart a lot lately. I had a little girl back in 2007 and gave her your middle name! Her name is Kailey Nicole. She is now 4 years old. I miss you so much and while I haven't posted on here you know I've been talking to you a lot lately. I was going through some pictures from middle school the other day and found a picture from the bus that I had taken. There you were all smiles, laughing at something. I miss those days. I'm happy that you are in a peaceful place now though. Just know that you are NOT forgotten and we all still love and miss you so very much!! Love always, Amber |
Thursday, October 20, 2011 03:03 AM
| Name: | Heather |
| E-mail address: | Unlikelyangel08@aol.com |
| Comments: | Wow, Destini, it has been some time since you have been gone, and our sophmore year was never really complete because you were not there to share it with all of us, but now summer is here and as the bright sun shines we remember ur bright smile, we all miss you and cant wait to see u again someday. Well, i must say goodbye for now, but not forever...luv you, Heather |
Wednesday June 7, 2006 02:54 PM
| Name: | Brittany Adkins |
| E-mail address: | XxKraziBeeBabyxX@aol.com |
| Comments: | Hey My darling Destini.. I havent commented on here in a while.. I guess because alot of things have been going on.. Well I guess your up there today with Katie Kittel.. I bet yawl are throwing her and great Birthday party huh? Please take care of her... I love you alot Destini.. And nothing is the same without you.... Sol's are here and its almost the end of the school year... Things are going by fast i guess.. I wish you were here to enjoy them with us... Though I know you are in a better place.. I love you Dearly... <3 Brittany Adkins |
Tuesday May 16, 2006 03:19 PM
| Name: | Jacalynn Garbee |
| E-mail address: | jgarbee@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | ok..so one year. Wow a long time. I
come on here sometimes and read what people say about her and think
of all the good times. I remember we would have p.e. together and we
would always talk about Justin and what was going on with him and
her and I just remember her being happy for the most part when she
talked about him, but I always worried that he would break her heart
as he did to so many others. She always worried about her
make-up..lol..I remember everyday she would ask if her make-up was
ok and you would have to tell her a few times before she would
believe you. When I saw the comment that her mom and dad and sister
left, I started to cry and I wish I could take all their pain away.
I wish somehow I could make it better, but I know that would be
impossible. I wish I could have help Destini more. I tried, I really
did and now it seems like I didn't try hard enough and I didn't help
her the way I was ment to. It hits me now that she will never come
back through the school doors and hug me and she look at me and
smile to make everything better. I remember when I found out and it
didn't seem really. I don't think it seems real now and I don't
think it ever will. Destini was a kind person, with a good heart and
I know she is happy with God. I just wish that everyone would take something back with what happened to her. Laughing at people and makeing that feel bad about themseleves hurts them. Maybe even more then they will let people see. My thoughts and prayers are still with the family. I would also like them to know I am sorry for not coming to see them yet, I have just been scared and worried. I love you Destini and you are always in my thoughts.
Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments,worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God.
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~*~*~Jackies~*~*~
Sunday April 2nd, 2006 09:15:30 AM
| Name: | Lisa |
| E-mail address: | beebusdriver@netzero.com |
| Comments: | I couldn't bring myself to write on
here a week ago but just today someone did something on the bus and
Destini just popped in my head. The girls who read this know what I
am talking about...what happened was one of the girls left her plant
near my seat until she got off the bus and it reminded me of what
Destini use to do...she would get on the bus and her bookbag was so
stuffed with things that she could hardly carry it and the bus was
so crowded that she couldn't make it down the aisle with it so she
set it beside my seat and ask me to consider it my friend and take
care of it until she got off the bus. It became a running joke with
her everyday because that dang bookbag was huge. My dear Destini...I miss you everyday, everyday I get on that bus I think of you and even though I don't have to drive by your house everyday I still think of you and remember you daily. And something else really weird .... even though I don't have to drive by your house everyday, I now have an alternative bus run which puts me driving through Rustburg daily and everyday there is your moms car with your name shining back at me from her license plate. Are you watching down on your FAVORITE bus driver? I hope so because you were and are a shining star in my life and I hope you know that you are truly missed by so many. And as always I want everyone to remember that laughing,joking and being cruel to others may be funny at the moment but it leaves scars deep in people that sometimes can never be removed. Think about how you would feel if this was being done to you! Don't regret later for saying something that should not have been said at all. No one ever said you had to like everyone or everyone had to like you but being cruel just for a laugh from your friends is low and you should always think about how it would feel if the shoe was on the other foot. It might seem cruel to say but I hope that everyone learned something from Destini.....if you think even for a moment that someone is in trouble don't be afraid to say something to the right people. You can do this without that person ever knowing you were the one that told...it might make a difference in someones life. To Destini's family...I keep you in my thoughts daily and hope with each day that passes that the hurt doesn't hurt quite so much. **Lisa** |
| Name: | Jamie Henderson |
| E-mail address: | jamieluvstravis4ever@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | Laurie & Tony I'm so sorry for the very first entry that I wrote! It's just that I miss her so much and think about her, her smile, hug, laughter, now I have none of that just a memory I cry every night thinking about her. But I know that it's harder for yal' especially since it's been a year now. But yea I just wanted to say that I'm sorry yal' can email me if you want. Phelps family you're in my prayers. ~!Rest in Peace sweet angel Destini Phelps!~ |
| Name: | Jamie Henderson |
| E-mail address: | jamieluvstravis4ever@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | Its still very hard for me but I'm finally writing you again. There isnt a day that goes by that I dont think about Destini. She was such an awesome and unique person, I'll never forget her. Her huge and beautiful smile could light up not only a room but it could light up the whole world. I love and miss Destini Nicole Phelps so much and it's extremely hard for me to live without her!!! Rest in Peace my beautiful Destini! I love you! Jamie L. Henderson |
| Name: | Laurie Phelps |
| E-mail address: | lwphelps@co.campbell.va.us |
| Comments: | It's been a year now baby girl, but it seems like yesterday You were laughing, singing, & making everyone smile Oh, how you're still missed so much everyday. If only we had know your pain We would have done anything You hid it well from most of us No one felt your sting. Des, there is not a day that goes by that we don't think of you and cry. If you would have only known how many people really loved and cared about you. All your friends are starting to drive now and most of them have jobs. It saddens us knowing that you would be doing all of that now. We see some of your friends quite often. We try to give them a big hug, but there was no hug like a Destini hug! Your personality enlightened so many lives. So many people truly miss you. Mikayla talks about you quite often. She knows that you are her gaurdian angel and tells everyone she sees. She always says, "Do you remember when me and sissy did this and sissy did that?" We do special things in your honor so you will never be forgotten. We know that you are in a better place but our selfishness wants you here. Good-bye for now baby girl. We love and miss you very much. Love Mom, Dad, & Mikayla |
| Name: | Heather |
| E-mail address: | Unlikelyangel08@aol.com |
| Comments: | Hey sweetheart, Wow, I really can't believe that it has been a year. I still miss you the same as I always have. I know you are living it up in heaven and that everytime you smile the sun gets a little brighter. Brookvile isnt the same without you, and still sometimes I look just to see if you'll walk in, but then i realize that although we cant see you that you are there, and will always be in opur hearts. We will never ever forget about you. <33333 |
| Name: | Tabitha Meyers |
| E-mail address: | rawkmahsawkz@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | Wow its been a year today. I cant believe it. I cant believe how much she was hurting. How much people hurt her. She didnt deserve the treatment she got from some of her fellow peers. Getting picked on and pushed around? what is wrong with people? Destini was the sweetest, nicest, kindest person there was and she did NOT deserve what she got. We all miss her and love her and want to see her again i know i do. I listened to so many sad songs and i finally found the perfect one for her. Ill be missing you by P. Diddy. that is a tribute from me and whitney to her. That song reminds me of her so much and it makes me miss her even more. we used to be the best of friends in elementary and middle school. she was always there for me and we had so much fun together. i remember one time i went to her house and spent the night. We watched Carrie 2 and ate popcorn and had a blast. Sometimes i wish i could go back to that day and just be happy again with her. To think of all the things that she wont be able to do makes me sad for her that she had to do this to ease her pain. If only she would have talked to someone about what she was going through she would maybe still be here today. i miss her so much and i wish i could see her again today but i know in my heart that i will see her again one day in heaven. To Destini: I love you and miss you gurl!! love always Tabitha. |
| Name: | Jan King |
| E-mail address: | jatang97@netzero.net |
| Comments: | Destini, It's so hard to believe that you have been gone a year today. It seems just like yesterday your mom and I were making plans to get together with you for lunch during spring break. I was also hoping you would keep me company while I was out with my knee operation. I know you were up in Heaven keeping me safe during my operation. I can still hear your voice everytime I would come by or talk to you on the phone. You lit up the whole room with your smile and your great big hugs. I'll never forget the times I would come over and watch you, come to your birthday parties or even when we got lost trying to get you to swim practice. It was an honor for your parents to trust me with you and I truly appreciate them for that and for letting me get to know such a wonderful person. I wish you were still here but God needed you more. I keep in touch with your mom, dad and Mikayla on a regular basis. I am even taking a computer class with your mom. It's been a hard year and I've done the best I could to help your mom, dad, and Mikayla through it. I know you are looking down on us and keeping us safe. We still don't understand fully why but we now know that you are in a much better place where no one can ever hurt you again. I think of you every day and I even have your picture in my room so that I can see your smiling face everyday. If I'm ever having a bad day I always remember your smiling face and it makes my day better. I will never forget you and I will always do my best to be there for your mom, dad, and Mikayla. Gosh you two look so much a like. I know you are looking down on us and I hope you know how much you were loved by everyone. I considered you one of my adopted kids. You are such a beautiful girl with the most gorgeous eyes and smile. Don't ever let that smile fade because when I look up I know you are smiling back down at us. You may be gone but I will never forget you. May you rest in peace. Go spread your wings and remember that I will always love you. Miss ya and love ya, Jan |
| Name: | Tabitha Meyers |
| E-mail address: | rawkmahsawkz@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | Destini we all miss you and care about you!!! we love you to death and it hurts that we lost you!!!! you were a good person and everyone misses you!! love always, tabitha |
| Name: | Amanda Hackett |
| E-mail address: | TL4Life@msn.com |
| Comments: | Well Destini, I can NOT believe that tomorrow will be one year since you left. The chorus room was so quiet and you'll NEVER EVER be forgotten. Sometimes when I'm having a bad day, I want to see you in the halls and get a huge hug from you. Its just not fair that people would say such rude things to make someone feel so low. Well I hope they realize how much pain and hurt that they have put people thorugh. I wish that I could see you just one last time but most wishes just unfortunantely cant come true. I remember you and your caring personality ever time that I see your picture and I want to laugh...but then i tear up. I love you and miss you greatly and I'll never forget your laughs, hugs, and your favorite question, "Does my face look okay?" lol My thoughts and prayers are with the Phelps Family. *Amanda* |
| Name: | Lisa W |
| E-mail address: | beautiflletdwn248@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | Tomorrow is going to be tough to get
through just knowing that one thing could have happened a year ago and
things could be so different right now. You could still be with us. But
what's the use of thinking how things could be. Because the truth is,
they're not the way we wish them to be. Every now and then I start to think of you, Destini. Actually I think about you often. I'll never be able to forget you. I don't even want to try to forget about you. You were someone that would always be there. If anyone needed someone to listen, you were there. You were there as a shoulder to cry on. If someone was sad or upset, you'd do anything to try to get them to smile. You were always there to lift somebody's spirits. If they thought they couldn't do something, you'd say they could. If only you knew that you could do whatever you put your mind to. You had more spirit than most people do. All the memories... It's hard to not think about you. And the smile you always had on. It could light up any room. I hope your new life is making you keep on smiling. Just know that there are so many people down here that miss you. You will always be a part of each and every person that ever knew of you. You are unforgettable. |
| Name: | Lynne Burnham |
| E-mail address: | lmburnham@co.campbell.va.us |
| Comments: | A Year Without You Describing Destini is like describing a rainbow to the blind... The light from her smile drew you to her... The spark in her eyes showed her soul Her heart brimful of compassion Her laugh engaged us all Her spirit guides us to soar in her memory Gone too soon...living within us forever Mom, Dad and Mikayla |
| Name: | Lauren Horsley |
| E-mail address: | trdr496@msn.com |
| Comments: | Wow, this year you've been gone has gone by really fast, it seems like yesterday when we were in p.e. together. every time we play a game in p.e. Chantalle and I remember different things that happened when we were playing those games last year with you,I miss you so much, I'll always remember you and i hope you have found peace in heaven |
| Name: | Kodi Compton |
| E-mail address: | softbllchik28@verizon.net |
| Comments: | wow i cant believe its almost been a year either.. its realli hard to qo by ur house everyday and not see u peekin thru the blinds wavin at me everyday... i just wanted to say i miss u and i will NEVER forqet about u..<3333 Kodi |
| Name: | Whitney |
| E-mail address: | luckycharmz1221@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | Wow its so hard to believe that its almost been a year. Me and sarah were just talkin about all the fun we used to have with Destini and now things just arent the same. I love to think about her even though it makes me want to cry. I'll never be able to let a day go by without thinking about her. To Mr. and Mrs. Phelps i send my condolences and prayers. |
| Name: | Brittany Adkins |
| E-mail address: | XxKraziBeeBabyxX@aol.com |
| Comments: | Hay Destini my angel. so how are you and
Branden doing up there? I hope yawl are okay, and looking down on yawls
familys. I miss yawl so much I dont know what to do. You were the girl
with the Beautiful smile. The best personality and so nice and pretty. I
wish you were here but I know in my heart that you and Branden are in a
Better place. Destini and Branden yawl are just two simply amazing
people. "The thing that keeps me going through is Knowing that I'll See
Yawl Again someday." I love yawl my angels. Now Rest in peace. Lay you
head and rest. Signed with lots and bunches of love, Brittany Renee! I love yawl RIP Destini Nicole And Branden |
| Name: | Brittany Adkins |
| E-mail address: | XxKraziBeeBabyxX@aol.com |
| Comments: | Hay Destini my Angel I just wanted to let you know that I havent forgotten about you and I think of you everyday. I think about the classes im sitting in you were probably sitting in the same ones. And the halls you walked down with that big smile. We miss you so much Destini and I know you are resting in a better place. I still miss you smile.. And I love you bunches. Also a friend Branden Miller came up there friday, please take care of him. I'm sure yawl will get along fine. Please look down on his family and friends. We miss and love you Destini and Branden. Now rest in peace my sweet angels rest in peace! Love Brittany Renee |
| Name: | Jacalynn Garbee |
| E-mail address: | jgarbee@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | Wow, almost a year that she has been
gone. I still miss her and I still think about her a lot. Sometimes I
still walk into school and think I might she her. It's been really hard,
for everyone I am sure. It doesn't seem fair. Seeing her picture makes me smile and yet I still feel like I want to cry again. She is still missed and she will always be loved. I hope she has been having a good year up there with God. I know she is :D Jackie |
| Name: | Brooke B. |
| E-mail address: | Qtpiebhb@aol.com |
| Comments: | I don't even know where to begin. Destini and I were
good friends in elementary school but had lost touch in the past years.
She was the most incredible person I have ever met. She was so special
just looking at her made me smile. I see her picture in my room everyday
and it makes me hurt so bad that people could be mean to someone so kind
and sweet. I cant wait until I can see your bright smile again in heaven!!
I love and miss you so much. You touched my life in a way that I will
never forget. I'm praying for her family everyday and i hope that they are
doing well. God Bless!! Love you Destini!! Brooke B. |
Friday, December 16th 2005 - 01:53:23 PM
| Name: | Kara Wilson |
| E-mail address: | Monkcrazy07@aol.com |
| Comments: | I still cannot bring myself to believe that you are
gone... not a day goes by that i do not think of you... it all feels like
a bad dream that i can't wake up from.. I know though that you are without
a doubt in the best place in the world .. Heaven.. and that gives me
comfort.. knowing that you are without pain and you are happy... people
are cruel.. someone who seems to think they have the right to make fun of
others must have a lot of insecurities of their own that they are trying
to hide by putting others down.. I mean does it make you feel good knowing
you're breaking someone down.. just to get a few laughs???... to all those
people out there who decide that you'd rather be cool then worry about how
much emotional pain you put someone through .. you make me SICK!!! You are
the Lowest of the Low!!! I was going through quotes one day when i found one in particular that caught my eye: "A million words couldn't bring you back, I know because I've tried, Neither could a million tears, I know because I've cried" This is exactly how i feel about you Destini.. you were probably the most selfless person i have and will ever meet in my entire life.. and I thank God every night that I got the chance to be your friend.. I will always miss you and i pray for the day i will see you again....but for now Spread your newfound wings, and Soar... |
Tuesday, December 13th 2005 - 10:11:02 PM
| Name: | Lisa |
| E-mail address: | beebusdriver@netzero.net |
| Comments: | Missing Destini still today. I heard the newest song by
Kenny Chesney- "Who you'd be today". Wow that is what I have been thinking
about her. I have also read the words written on Dec. 1st. And I too ask you guys to please think of her parents and her sister when you are writing on this page. We all say terrible things when we want attention or get upset and we always seem to direct them at the ones we love the most or who love us the most. None of us were in that house and we don't know what she was feeling on that day. Because most of us only tell what we think others want to hear or what we want them to hear. Destini was a troubled child, I personally saw it just about everyday. I was her bus driver and I saw the tears one day and the smiles the next. I knew she was calling out for help in some way or another but I never said anything to anyone just as most of you never did either. I ask you please don't judge her parents. I didn't know them either but what they are going through I would never ever wish on my worst enemy. I can't even imagine the pain. Mr. & Mrs. Phelps.... I think about you all the time and hope that you two are doing as best you can with what you have to deal with. You and MiKayla are in my thoughts and prayers. I miss you Destini Soar High my girl because we will all see you again someday. Lisa |
Monday, December 12th 2005 - 08:43:17 PM
| Name: | Lynne Burnham |
| E-mail address: | lmburnham@co.campbell.va.us |
| Comments: | I learned of this website through Destini's mother. She
was concerned about the entry dated Dec. 1. I have read it and understand
her concern. I am the Volunteer Coordinator in Campbell County, and
created the Project Destini Youth Volunteer Program. I have read all of
these entries about the young woman I named my volunteer program after. I
think we all know Destini was troubled and tried to hide it from everyone
with humor. I know Destini's Mom and Dad, and have spent time with her
sister Mikayla. I have total confidence in Destini's parents. I ask you to
see that some of her claims about them were for attention. They are loving
people and Destini hid her true feelings from them. She was sinking and
trying to gain attention in any way she could, making claims about them
being mean and worse. This is a true tragedy. I hope all of you young
people have learned that hiding deep upset from your parents only makes
things worse. LASTLY, some of you who were closest to her were told the
worst things about her parents in her effort to get your attention. These
two people are my friends. They have been devastated by all of this. You
must remember they have lost the most. Making hurtful accusations about
them, or what Destini may have told you, is very hurtful to them and to
their family and friends. Obviously Destini was not herself at the end,
and some of her claims were untrue. The only truth is that everyone has
lost a part of themselves, and blame and judgments are of no use. The
ultimate blame in the decisions all of us make are our own responsibility.
This ultimate decision was made by Destini herself. A decision she could
not take back. Destini loved her parents, her sister and her family. If
you would like to do something to honor your friend...join Project Destini
and do some volunteer work in her honor...be positive...not negative...
build bridges...don't tear them down...love her family and you will see
your grieving ease. Lynne Burnham Volunteer Coordinator Campbell County |
Monday, December 12th 2005 - 06:47:09 PM
| Name: | Jamie Henderson |
| E-mail address: | jamieluvstravis4ever@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | This is really upsetting but I'm finally writing something! Destini was my best friend me and Kausha Cook knew her better than anyone did. Destini was always cheerful on the outside, but on the inside she was upset. She told me several times that she wanted to kill herself and most the times I convinced her not to and told her to promise me she wouldn't. Well she was breaking down, she said that her parents were mean and yelled at her for no reason, and that her dad beat her. But I told her just try to stick through it everything's tough but in the end everything will be better. She was just so upset after I said that it was hard for me to watch her cry. What really makes me mad is how a lot of people here at school treated her Ethan Nixon made fun of her all the time. He called her fat and ugly you just don't say that to someone.... No one will ever get to see Destini again...and that's really really hard on me.. I miss her so much words cannot describe how much I love her!!! Now that she's gone I don't know what to do.. Just wait until my time comes so I can be with her.. Destini I love you so much!! Rest in Peace!!!!! |
Friday, December 1st 2005 - 11:08:11 PM
| Name: | Caleyah M |
| E-mail address: | leyah122002@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | I was still fairly new at Brookville and actually had
moved back to Pennsylvania a couple weeks before the tragedy. I will never
forget when I first heard the news. I didn't really have the chance to get
to know Destini, but I knew who she was and I said hi to her in the
hallway sometimes. I was in tears. I didn't understand why someone who was
always smiling could hold so much pain inside. This tragedy really made me
appreciate the little things in life. I treat people with kindness, even
who I don't know, but I learned that life is too short. We only live once
so enjoy it while you can, be nice to everyone, talk to someone if you are
feeling pain, and ignore people who are mean. They aren't worth it. So I
just wanna say Destini, Rest In Peace and you will always be missed. <33333Caleyah<33333 |
Friday, October 27th 2005 - 8:22:40 PM
| Name: | Courtney W. |
| E-mail address: | SweetShawty89@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | Destini was like my best friend we use to argue in 6th
grade but we made up! i got upset when i heard bout her pass away one of
my friends lived near her and i was on the phone with him and he heard a
ambulance going by his house which my other friend tried to get a hold of
me several times to let me know i didn't get to see her Wednesday because
i got suspended i miss her and i wish she never left us but she's in a
better place were she cant get made fun of and were she can look down on
us and watch us. R.I.P Destini Nicole Phelps!!! |
Friday, October 27th 2005 - 5:39:41 PM
| Name: | Kodi Compton |
| E-mail address: | softbllchik@aol.com |
| Comments: | well its been awhile since u*ve been gone and its soo sad that u didnt qet to experience ur sophomore year. but we all still have u in our hearts so realli ur there with us everyday. I saw sum1 last nite that made me think of u big time.. brandon pickeral.. u use to have the biggest crush on him in elementary school and middle he was talkin about how he missed u and he couldn't believe u were qone.. but i think that u were lookin down from heaven and saw us talkin about u so u were probably lookin down smilin :) I hope ur smilin at all of us up in heaven cuz we all miss u very much.. i cant wait to see u up there u and that big smile of urs.. u will always be in our hearts and i jus wanted to check in.. u are always in my <3heart<3 but we all miss and love you... <3 Kodi |
Friday, October 1st 2005 - 4:19:33 PM
| Name: | Ariele Scruggs |
| E-mail address: | Ibeecheern2008@verizon.net |
| Comments: | hey there Dest, just stopping by to say hello. It's
been a little while since you have been gone.. and it still hurts to see
your picture hanging on my wall. just wanted to drop a quick note and say
I Love You.. and i miss you.. Sophomore year just isn't the same without
you here! im telling you there are more freshman this year then it was of
us last year..they crowd the hallway so bad girl! haha... love
you..another of my close friends passed away about 2 weeks ago...Tiffany
Johnson... i know you two will get along great up there.. i love you tiff
and i love you destini!! cant wait to see you..thats def. going to go down in history of bear hugs from you Dest.! Love always and forever Ariele |
Friday, September 29th 2005 - 5:38:16 PM
| Name: | Sarah D |
| E-mail address: | pinkfluffybunny@att.net |
| Comments: | i cry alot |
Friday, September 28th 2005 - 1:59:38 PM
| Name: | Joey Ricketts |
| E-mail address: | dixieboy14@verizon.net |
| Comments: | she was pretty cool and I had known her since kindergarten. now that she is gone the bus is pretty quiet. see ya!!!! |
Friday, September 9th 2005 - 11:21:27 PM
| Name: | Angela Farmer |
| E-mail address: | LilBHSqT4U@hotmail.com |
| Comments: | Wow...it took me so long to write something in here...I've been sooo tore up about this...I miss Destini so much...and i remember the next day goin' to school after it happened walkin into the class i had with her waiting and praying for her to walk through the door...its so crazy that someone who smiled all the time and would make your worst day seem like the best ever was hurting so bad...I had been friends with Destini since 6th grade...but we had really gotten close this past year...riding to basketball practices together...or goin' to the y together...she was so hilarious and beautiful...and I hate that she was hurting so bad...I wish I could have done anything in the world to fix everything for her...nothing is the same without her here...I cant even go to the y anymore becuz it makes me think about her so much...there is not a day that goes by that I don't think about her or miss her...I still cry about it and I don't really think I've accepted it yet...every time my phone rings I pray that its her to tell me she was playing some sick joke and that she'll be back in school the next day...I miss and love her so much and I cant wait till I see her in heaven...I pray for her family everyday and I hope that next time people want to say sumthin' hateful to someone they think about this horrible incident and realize that same person ur talkin' to could pass on at any moment...and u would never be able to take back the words u said...and to anyone who ever needs someone to talk to..u can come to me anytime -Angela |
Friday, September 3rd 2005 - 8:38:24 PM
| Name: | Amanda Hackett |
| E-mail address: | TL4Life@msn.com |
| Comments: | Well lets see...Destini Nicole Phelps was one of the most beautiful and non-complicated teenaged I have ever met. She ALWAYS wore a huge pretty smile on her face and she was always so happy. I was in total disbelief when I got the horrible news that Thursday. That Friday when I went to school, people were crying and I tried to be strong and help everyone else with their pain, but it only took a few moments before my pain came through. I also heard people saying rude things about her even after she left us. I remember the Wednesday before she passed on to a better life...she was in my chorus class. Destini, Amanda Mays, and I had been talking the whole class (as usual) and Mrs. Knott had finally gotten fed up with us and kicked us out. W sat out in the hall for at least 20 minutes. We laughed and talked and as always, we went through her purse for lip gloss and gum. Finally the bell rang and I told her I loved her and that I would see her Thursday if it didn't snow. She told me that she loved me and gave me her huge bear hug that she gave anyone who need it. I feel as though she would still be here smiling and laughing if it hadn't snowed that Thursday. I also cant believe that yesterday was 6 months...has it really been that long? It seems like just yesterday we were laughing and carrying on in 6th period. I love ya Destini Nicole and I think about you every day...God Bless ya...<3 Amanda and Amanda<3 |
Friday, August 25th 2005 - 6:28:02 PM
| Name: | Lisa W |
| E-mail address: | bhsbabe408@msn.com |
| Comments: | Wow. Yesterday was 6 months since you've been gone
Destini. It's been kind of rough without you. But during the rest of the
rec bball season we thought of you. We were 'Team 14'. We won that
championship just for you. I started crying a little yesterday because of you. Looking through my yearbook. Seeing your picture just made me smile because you were smiling, but then the thought that I won't be seeing that smiling face on Monday hit me hard. I had to shut my yearbook and I layed on my back staring at the ceiling. I'll never forget those basketball moments on our rec team. You were the light of the team. You'd always be the one to get all of us to smile or laugh. And all those times when you said you couldn't do something... but you did them perfectly. You'd put that shy did-I-really-do-that-right smile on and we all had to smile and laugh. It was always you that said I could make those foul shots whenever I was screwing up. Where ever you were you'd scream my name and blow me a "good-luck kiss." After you left us, I got fouled so many times. Each time I'd look over the bench and you wouldn't be there, so I closed my eyes and pictured your face. And I'd make the shot. Destini you became one of my best friends in a years time. We came up with so many inside jokes. It was great seeing you walking through the halls smiling EVERY day. You have been missed greatly, Destini. You must have not realized how many people in this world loved and cared you. I'm one of them. You were my boo and always will be. :) I miss you, girl. |
Friday, August 25th 2005 - 12:39:56 PM
| Name: | Ann Harris |
| E-mail address: | aharris1@lynchburg.net |
| Comments: | Well Destini and I had cheered together for three or four years, and she always brought a smile to my face because she would say or do something funny. I remember when she would be at her friends locker she would ask if i was having a good day and that always made me feel really good. Destini I do know one thing, you will always be missed by a lot of people! Love in Christ... |
Friday, August 15th 2005 - 7:43:21 PM